Friends, jealousy and hate

So why do people pretend to be your friend when they hate you?

In the deep thoughts I have, it is because they want something that you are good at or because you have someone in your friend part, that they want to be friends with. The thing it is never that easy I mean lets say I want to be friend with a dude that has a girlfriend I hate, I would probably be friends with that girl as he loves here. I know that it's not good to be friend with someone you don't but many people are that just because they gain something, as I would gain the boy's friendship.

So how many are using me for the same reason, I mean I am in a relationship.. Probably someone but I don't know if that person hates me or that, but there is probably someone that is my friend to get Michael's friendship.

Than you have those that are jealous on everything you have, and those things you are doing, honestly why would you put so much energy to  be jealous on your friend, you might miss the best guy while you are jealous. I mean if you want to have someone that someone else already have you can't get that boy and then you look for someone that reminds you of him that is pretty much lame. I mean why wouldn't you want to have your own taste in dudes.

Now to the other thing, if your friend has a boyfriend you should not be jealous of her, and that dude, you should be happy for her. I know there are some people that get jealous that you have someone and you can't control it but what can you do more than living?

Than you have those that never like you and hate you, they are just pretending to be your friend so they can crush you and make you sad, and feel bad about you. I guess there are some girls that will always be jealous that I have Michael as he is the sweetest guy in this world, no one can beat his sweetness. There are some boys that are jealous on Michael because he has me as a girlfriend, but in time you learn to choose who you want in your life or not.

So the last thing I want to ask is 12-12-12 a good day to get married? what do you think?

-Jo