Today I am going to write about one thing that actually amazes me a lot is humans, I mean they never tend to change, they are always the same, feeling really sorry for themselves. Is there anyone out there that isn't selfish that doesn't want to be happy and most of all they really don't destroy for someone else?
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Well now to my big issue in this, I am not saying I am perfect as I am far from it, to be honest when I look close I am more selfish, I admit it. But it is people that pretend to be your friends just because they want something out of you, or something like that. Simple as it is I would never ever be a friend with anyone I don't like, they would never ever get to know anything about me, nothing personal at least. But I would always keep my enemy close, because if I ever need to take that person down I have the information I need!

Well what can you say about humans, they kill each other, they rape others, they steal, they do lots of bad things, have we ever done anything good really? hmm let me think, It was not good to come up with the car, environment aspects, the pc not as we have slowly forget to social with others, you can't just talk via a computer, guns, no as they kill others.. Honest even if I think about one good thing I know I can see the bad thing, we humans aren't that smart, we only care about us selves.

I mean if you are rich, do you give money to someone that is poorer than you, to help that person, even if you have £100 over every month and you can shop and things like that? Most people would not help that poor person as we humans tends to not care about those that has it worse than us. What I want to say we are selfish in one than one way.

Friends is something you really need in your life, even if you are selfish you need someone to be there for you when you are down, and sometime you might need help in your life and then you have your friends there to help you. Even if you/they are poor they would help you in anyway they can. That is what a friend is about not like some are. Just being friend with you, so they can get in to someone else life, as they miss that person, or something silly as they like that person, they are just using you to feel better themselves. I don't like people like that.

The thing is I might seem like a cold person for most people, but the thing is I do respect other people and others feelings, I would always tell one person before everyone else know it just because it is more respectful to that person to hear it from me than anyone else. You really don't need to know things, about me, but most people think I don't care, I would tell some people things before the rest of the world will know.

so let me ask this question? Who would you tell first that you are engaged? and why would you tell that person that? So if I look at myself I would tell one girl first as I think she deserves to know it as one she has feelings for the dude, and it is more respectful she hears it from me than someone else, that will say it complete wrong, I would just say it easy, I am engaged to Michael, I hope you are happy for us :) It is not to make anyone jealous it is about respect. So me being cold is wrong.

The other thing is if she don't want to know it I would respect it, you should always respect the other person you are talking to, no matter who it is, can be a homeless can be a druggie but more or less could be the king. but they all are worth the same in my eye, they are a human being.

The one thing that bugs me is when someone talks about your boyfriend to you, and trying to tell you things they have done, nothing huge nothing small but things like, I thank him for every moment he made me happy, and how he made me feel! Okay why would I know what my boyfriend did to you? but it is the same with Ex's when you meet the new girlfriend and she says he makes me cum every time we have sex. I always think why would I know this? hmm, I mean I left him for my reasons, or he left me for his reasons, but I still don't want to know what happens in his life now, and with my boyfriend I would never ever want to know what he has done with other girls, I know that he have had fun with them, and I know he has been awesome good to them, but please save me from hearing it.

The other thing I don't get why people get guns, to protect themselves? Do they even think that they might kill someone else when they are protecting themselves, I don't think so, I am not against guns or anything like that, but I really don't care, I hope I never have to have a gun to feel safe, and I hope I never get a gun in front of my nose either.

Damn this post might got to long, but I hope that everyone get my point we humans are selfish and we will probably always be that.

We all do mistakes, we're not perfect, we are really just humans, but sometimes we do things right, we save lives, we care about others.

-Jo