You all have friends, you all have enemies.
The different thing about friends and enemies is that the other one can be hurting you way more than the other. I mean If I had a friend that becomes my enemy that person knows to much about me and then they hurt me in a different way than the regular enemy you have.
If your enemies are there to hurt you because you accidentally start to like a person that they like, you look at them in the wrong way, because you don't have a swedish last name etc they can not hurt you as much as a close friend or a ex friend can. Because they really don't know you and that makes them just morons that are mostly unhappy themselves.
But when your friend start to hurt you it actually doesn't make any sense. It can be so little that start that spiral, when you like the same guy, you are better than your friend in something, they hurt you in a meaner way. like saying, you are ugly, and stupid, loud and clear so everyone can hear it. They make fun with you because they want to look better themselves.
What I mean is that if you like the same person they can make you look like an totally idiot to that person, by talking things they make up, tell the worst parts of you, and everything else.
So who is easiest to forgive? The friend or the enemy? I think the enemy is the easiest to forgive as your friend was someone you trust but broke the trust. The same is with love if he breaks the trust you had in him, it is hard to rebuild.
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