Today I will write about one thing that actually everyone never really talk about that is jealousy I know, I have write about it before, but let me say this one will be another twist on it.
Now to the thing, I see it so many times, girl and guys that are jealous that someone is in a relationship, because they are unhappy in love with other people. Okay this might be a strange blog post but I feel like I have to tell this to some people around me, and if you feel like it is too you I have write this maybe about you so you will think about it.
Why on earth are you jealous if you like a guy/girl that is in a relationship, trying to get that person to fall in love with you, you always forget others when that person are online, always talking to him/her. I know you want to talk to that person, when it is online, but you can’t just forget about the others, as they will just feel sad and annoyed that you are trying to get someone that is happy in love with someone else.
I don’t think that the person would start to love you, or anything like that, as you have been knowing each other for some time, and if that person haven’t fallen for you in that time he/she will not fall for you now either. The thing is that I think that the person that you love knows it deep down as you are not the same when you love someone, and they really just don’t want to tell you that you don’t have a chance with him/her. I know that because I have one that actually loves me, and when I told him that he had no chance with me, that was the hardest thing I had to do, as I broke that persons heart complete.
The thing is I never get why people tend to forget their friends when they are in love with someone, and when they talk to you they only talk about that person that they love, and how much it bugs them that him/she is so happy in love with someone else. I had one that talked about the person she loved, to me and how he had asked her for help to get another girl, ouch that was probably hard thing for her to hear, but she said to him things that would make the girl not like him, as she loved him. That is so sick but she did it because she was jealous of him being in love with someone else, who would actually do that? That is my thought why would you destroy the person you claim to love?
Okay now to the thing, most people get hurt when they talk to the person that they love, because him/she talks about things that you don’t want to hear about, and it makes you so jealous, but why can’t you forget that person, you know that him/she has another one, and yet you love him/her. You really should move over that person, as one, that person will not love you, even if you hope he/she will love you. Two, you are getting sad because of that person and the fact that you aren’t with him/her. And the last thing, you might destroy your friendship in the end, and is that worth it?
I know that it is not easy to forget someone you love, trust me I have seen one girl that is still in love with a boy that is planning to get married with someone else, and all she wants is to talk to that boy, but the boy isn’t that happy to talk to that person. You can try as much as you want to talk to him, but he will not talk to you, as he doesn’t like you as a person I guess. The thing is that you just make yourself silly by trying to talk to him, I mean he don’t even see you when you are online? When you are in front of him, honest why would you even sink so low that you want to make you seen for him?
I know people think I am cruel that tells this to my friend, but I got told that I had to forget one person and move on the best thing that happen to me, as I did move on and I found someone else in the end.
I don’t want my friends to be sad, and honest they are sad and jealous when it comes to the boys/girls that they love that doesn’t love them. All I want is for them to be happy as I am but that will not happen as long they are unhappy in love and jealous.
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