Dilemma's

Today I am going to talk about unhappy love and what some friends might want you to do. But you can't as it is to hard to deal with, as you can be friends with both but the other one don't see that you have to be loyal to both of them and that is hard.

Lets say that you are friend with two people one girl and one boy where the one person likes the other I will choose the girl now, that she is in love with the boy and I will even name the boy and the girl just because it gets easier, this is not a true story but more of a dilemma and what you can do and things like that

Boy will be named Nick
Girl will be named Nikita

Nikita is really in love with Nick, would have been easy if Nick Liked Nikita too more than a friend but that is not happening here, we need him to be in love with someone else for the fun so he is in love with some other girl that is called Angelica. Anyway Nick one day asks you as you are friend with him to met that Angelica that he is dating, and you know that Nikita will get angry and feel betrayed of you if you meet her, so what would you do?

I would not tell Nikita that I am going to meet that new girl Angelica, just because I feel I have to be supported to my friend Nick, and that girl he likes, and If nikita do get angry because I met his girlfriend/date she isn't a real friend. She would actually let me met her without telling me not to met her. I know that I should support Nikita. But what happens if I say no to Nick, I might lose him as a mate.

Nikita wants you to help her break up Nick with the new girl Angelica, How wold you handle that?

I think the best thing is to tell Nikita to get over Nick as he is in love with the other girl, and I know that nikita will not listen to me, but in the end she will see that I want her best and that she should forget someone that is not loving you in the same way. Nikita can say what she wants, but in the end she has to forget Nick as he don't love her.

What if Nick and Nikita starts to fight?

This is the worst part in the end, as you can't stand in anyone's side here, you have to stay out from the fight, and let them fight. Nick will probably tell Nikita that he and her will never happen, and all that Nikita wants is Nick to love her, but you can't change a thing there as it is feelings.

Now to the worst dilemma of all Nick Likes you, and Nikita loves him.

This is the worst possible thing that can happen, all you really can do here, is to tell Nick that you and him will not happen as Nikita likes him and you respect Nikita as a person, and if he really likes you he would not date you when he knows Nikita loving him.

Because deep down a person knows if someone likes you more than a friend you always make something to tell that you love that person, I mean you always want to talk to him/her, the thing is that the person that gets the Nikita, will probably avoid her, because girls get pretty much annoying when they fall in love, and are unhappy in love.

-Jo