a request to write about feelings when they change

My friend Malin has really choose a hard subject to talk about that is what you should tell your boyfriend/girlfriend when your feelings has changed.

Okay this is the strangest subject to talk about really because me, as a person would really go to my boyfriend and tell him that my feelings has changed and then work it from there. as it can be bad and it can be a good thing.

Well the thing is that when you are in a relationship your feelings change during the time you are together sometimes they just stop and you realize that you are better as friends, but the thing is that when you end a relationship you tend not to be friends anymore and that is so sad. I wish I could be friend with my exboyfriend sometimes yeah I do I will not lie about it, as I do miss his friendship. I realize way to late that we shouldn't have been together, and today we aren't friends, and that hurts in some strange way, as we where best friends. but we can't be friends as he has feelings for me, and I have not those feelings for him.

But when the feelings change to the better you tend to start to look in to the future and slowly start to plan your life with him, but it is way more scary to tell those feelings for your loved one, as he/she might not feel the same. It is always harder to talk about things that might hurt you in the end, but I would slowly talk about it like what do you want in the future, somehow you get a view of what the other person feels for the future.

Than we have the friendship between two friends, do the feelings change in there too, yeah they do that, and sometimes you realize way to late that you don't need the person, and sometimes you realize that you need a person you have kicked out from your life and than you don't know what to do as you can't just call that person and say hello I miss you.

I have some friends that blackmails me to do things but that will end now, and the person that blackmails me to do this oh well my feelings for you is just go to hell here you have my oppinion on feelings that change in a realtionship, but you never thought that I would think about friends either.. Oh well all I will say is thank you for the friendship we have had, and hope you will have fun and happiness in the future because our path is going different ways.

I will end this post with this :

You got the smile, I'll pray to god every day, that you keep that smile. Yeah, you are my dream, There's not a thing I won't do, I'll give my life up for you, 'Cause you are my dream, And baby, everything that I have is yours, You will never go cold or hungry, I'll be there when you're insure, Let you know that you're always lovely, boy, 'cause you are the only thing that I got right now, One day when the sky is fallin', I'll be standing next to you....