This is a thing I want to talk about as I have seen I have seen it so much jealousy I see it everday in my mates world, I am jealous sometimes too, but not in the bad way though.
Okay lets start if you are together with one person, why would you think seriously that that person would take someone else, I mean he has choosen you, that must mean that he loves you and not other people.
My friends that have their loved one close to them, I am jealous of them, yeah I am jealous as they have them close and I don’t. I know for a fact I will love him forever and I wouuldn’t change a thing aas I really want him. But I am jealous of the people that doesn’t care about their loved ones and things like that.
I want to have my loved one close to me every day, for the rest of my life, I want to be able to kiss him when ever I want, and to hug him when ever I want. But I really need to wait for that, as I know he has something to do, but when he has done it I know we will have a wonderful life, and we will always be happy.
Now to the people I’ve seen act, they hit their boyfriends/girlfriend, because they don’t get as they want, and I mean it can be as silly thing, most of the time it is silly. They seem to not be living in the same place as I do, why the hell would they be so stupid and be jackarses to their loved ones. They say stupid things to their loved ones, things like this :
- Why don’t you love me? I have an answer to that, He loves you otherwise he wouldn’t be with you or would he? I really just hate people that, say that they don’t love the other person, I mean don’t you think your boyfriend gets hurt when you say things like that, I mean you are the love in his life but you are making everything to push him away, Please try to understand that he do love you, and you have nothing to be jealous of.
- Go and kiss her, you love her more than me? Oh yeah if you say that he might do it someday, as you are pushing him away, as you are so jealous. I would never say that to my loved one as I want him to kiss me forever, and never to kiss someone else
- Why the hell are you TALKING to her, it is your ex girlfriend? Now to my best question my mate is saying, I mean I wouldn’t like if my boyfriend is friends with his ex as he has had feelings for her in some part, but I wouldn’t freak out if he talks to her, I would just ask him if he had a nice talk as I can’t control who he chooses as a friend, and you should always have in mind that he is with you for some reason and not her, she is an ex someone he has kicked out.
- Do you really hate me so much that you, have to talk to others? I have seen this one really often and seen how the other person reacts, one almost felt hopeless as he tries to explain every day how much he loves her, but some how she don’t get that. Why shouldn’t your partner be able to speak with others? They are just friends, and he loves you, you really don’t have to be jealous of his friends, he don’t love them as he love you.
Now to the point I don’t see why you should be jealous, you are with the person and you should always remember that a person is with you ‘cause they love you and no one else. I know you can go nuts sometimes, but please please don’t get jealous of things, just keep remind yourself that you are the person that he/she loves you and no one else.
I am afraid that I will become one of them, oh yeah that is the worst part as I have seen, and trust me that is the worst thing ever, I hope that I will never become a jealous person, I don’t like people like that.. I hope that my partner will take me down to earth if I become like that, that is so scary but it will end up fine in the end I think.
Well my friends haven’t realized that Jealousy is the reason their relationships most of the times crashes as when you are that jealous you just kill it by yourself. I wish they would understand that they are the problem and not their partner, but sometimes you need a helping hand, and here it is with my blog post, I know they read this blog post, and I hope they realize what they are doing because I don’t want them to be sad, as I know they will end up crying. And I have to take care of them.
I will end this post with a quote from Jennifer James about Jealousy...
“ Jealousy is simply and clearyly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy scans for ecidence to prove the point- that others will be preffered and rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative – self – calue. If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it’s mistake or luck. Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences. Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them. ”
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