I have something’s I have promise to talk about, as my friends want to read about so I will actually write about that, they want me to tell them what I think about having a ”friends with benefits!, ”distance relationship” and some random questions i have got.
Let me start with the first subject friends with benefits what I can say about that, I have had that and it is not good to have it. Well the thing is you always get feelings or someone of the friend gets, I mean it should just be about having sex but honest it doesn’t work like that. It is hard to just be a friend with benefits I mean the other one might just call you like 7 pm and say I want to have you right now, get ready. That is nothing you shouldn’t have if you aren’t ready for sex. I choose to have my ex as it was easiest to have someone I knew that I knew I wouldn’t get feelings for. Mostly because I was so over my ex as you could be, but then I wanted to have sex ‘cause I like that. I am not ashamed to confess that now either.
But now to what you want to know with that relationship is that it is twisted and you really don’t know if you are together or not, but I said clearly that I wasn’t together with him, and we will never be that either. But the others saw us like a couple but we weren’t a couple. Anyway I wish that I didn’t take him as a friend with a benefit since I know it is wrong, and I would say to everyone that ask me if they should take a friend with benefit to pass it, it is complicated and bad…
Now to the other thing, distance relationship honest I would say they are best because you really need to trust your boyfriend complete if you are having trust issues you can’t have a distance relationship. But the time you spend when you actually are with each other will be more special because you will take every single moment and treasure it as it was the last day you are living. I know that you really treat each other much better when you start off with a distance relationship because you take the time to get to know the other person, you talk lots on phone, skype, msn and then when you meet you will walk on the beaches, go to the cinema, go shopping together, play games, be nerds with each other. When you meet each other every single day you really want to spend time alone without your loved one, you don’t take time to get to know the person since you think I can do that tomorrow.
Well I know that you have to make the effort no matter what relationship you are in, you have to work for it to work.
Now to the so good questions my crazy mates want me to answer. ´
Why do you think you are ugly?
Honest, I don’t think I am ugly, I just say so you all other can feel pretty I know I am pretty and beautiful. Then there is one more thing I love to piss you off it is fun to see you trying to convince me that I am beautiful.
Why do you tend to dance on bar disks?
Easy question to answer it is because I know for a fact that I will get free vodka and champagne ‘cause I shake my arse there, trough I don’t have to do that either to get free things, I just have to blink with my eyes and smile and say buy me something nice.
Why do you talk so much?
Because you never have anything to say, ha! You know if I talk I feel like I can talk about anything but you always just say okay let’s do something else, you need to do things and be happy. oh yeah I do love to talk..
/Johanna
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