Happy and unhappy love!

Today I feel for talking about Happy and Unhappy love, I know it is a hard subject to talk about as we all have felt it sometime in our life

So now to the thing we all have felt in our life unhappy love, I think everyone have felt this some time in their life, I know I have felt it and it was hard and painful.

So why do we fall in love with people that we don't get the love back from? I remember when I fall in love with my best friends brother, that was so painful I saw him every single day, in school, when I was home, and when I was there. When I think about it he knew that I loved him, but somehow he tend to use the part as he knew I loved him, he said can you do this for me, and things like that, and I was so blind that I never saw that he didn't like me in that way, well my friend his sister always said he liked me as much as I liked him, but she lied as she wanted me to be happy.

So how is it that we become blind when it comes to love it doesn't matter if it is happy or unhappy love as you get blinded, by the guy you like. That is so painful when you actually are so blind that you don't see how much the other person truly likes you, or feel. How is it that we can miss that someone don't like us the way we like them, and why don't our friends tell us the truth about the love we have. I hope that my friends always tell me the truth, as one of them has said you are blind when it comes to your boyfriend, I know you love him, but do he love you in the same way. So now to the thing, because some people are unhappy in love they try to make you so unsure if you are happy in love, and they will go to really bad methods.

The thing is why would a guy use the girl that is unhappy in love? I know that girls do it too I will not deny it, we all do it. But the thing is boys tend to use girl in bad ways and here is some things that they use a girl, been me or been my friends..

- They have sex with the girl just because they know she likes him and want to be close to him, then when they have got what they want, they just leave the girl with a thank you!?! why the hell would you say thank you after you have had sex, the girls get sad and than she promise her self that she never will love him again, but that we all know that she does.

- They make the girl get things, go to the store, etc I know plenty and myself that you do this when they ask, they have the magic eyes to make you do everything. The magic smile as I say.

-They make sure that they kiss others in front of you and make you sad!

- They talk about the girl they like loud, and tell you how wonderful she is when you want to hear him speak those things about you, and then they end you are a good body, and they know you love them. for fuck sake don't speak about the person you love to someone that loves you.


Well now to the happy love that everyone will feel sometime in their life!

That is wonderful when you have someone that is as crazy in you as you are in them. Mostly that they are willing to do anything for you, to hug you when ever you need it. They ask you how you are and things like that. But mostly they take care of you. The thing is that they are willing to do anything for you when ever you need the person. They surprise you with lovely messages like a small I love you, be sexy for tonight.. we have a date, xoxo or something that makes you smile, but the thing is that you are as blind here as you are in the unhappy love. I don't get how we girls can become so blind, do guys get so blind to that they don't think about anything else than the person that they love?

Well I think that when you speak about love you can't really just put everything in to one post as there are so many love you have in your life as friendship, Partner, Sports, Hobbies and things like that. But there is one thing that we all will love unconditionally even if you are Girl or a lad, that is the love you will have for your children there is a love that I can't speak about yet as I am not a mother, but I know that love is different as I have just have to look at my parents and how much they love me without telling me I love you..

- Jo