Sunday, 28 November 2010

my own thoughts about jealousy..

Well I see jealousy as a bad thing because you always want something you can’t get, so for an example you want someone’s boyfriend but you can’t get him. The thing is you should respect the other persons feelings like the other girl in the relationship she doesn’t like that other girls is after her man, lad, husband, boyfriend so whatever you want to call it.

Now to the thing about jealousy I have seen it really close, and it destroys the best people from the inside, why not just try to make things that makes you feel happy? So if someone doesn’t love me then I would think for one week probably oh shite this sucks but then I would try to move on and try to be friends instead and then be happy for the person. I don’t want jealousy to destroy me; I like to be “pure” and not black inside.

Then I got a request from one person that means lots to me as a friend about respect! So I will write my own thoughts about it and it’s not right or wrong! Just my thoughts,

You have to respect yourself before you can respect others, so those people that doesn’t respect for an example that you are in a relationship with a boy doesn’t have self respect and they can’t see what makes the other person happy!

Oh my god I boil of angriness as soon as I think about it mostly because I can place my own feelings in this shite. The worst thing is that I just feel like crying mostly for the people that doesn’t respect me as a human being, they think I don’t get hurt when they try to take what I have, they seem to want to be me stupid jealous bitches as I call them! In my eyes they are less worth then dogs! Wait they are less worth then the pigs… They just try to make the people that is happy miserable.

I know I sound like a girl but guess what I am a girl and I can only see it from the girls eyes, and I know most girls knows what I am speaking about or we can pretend I know what I am talking about.

Mostly I think that jealousy is bad thing because the other person that is it try to control her/his partner do that to max, don’t do that, do that, don’t talk to that one, don’t look at that one! Jeeeeeeez I will just say my boyfriend will always be free to speak to whom he ever want to speak with, hang out with whoever he wants to be with, as long as he respect me as a human and don’t make me look bad or even worse stupid in front of other people.

You can be jealous of the other things that someone else have, like things, doesn’t have to be a person or so.

Well jealousy sucks! People should start to respect more things than they do!

2 comments:

Andreas said...

That's a really good message, Johanna. People should mind their own and learn to respect others...

Johanna said...

Indeed Andreas :D