shit always happens and you can't change it.. Trust me on that!
Christmas shopping is done, already AWESOME!
This is a short one!
Yes I am alive!
-Jo
Friday, 28 October 2011
Saturday, 22 October 2011
Something just
I have been thinking why I am so nice, I always forgive people, and I always respect other feelings, well other people's feelings.
Now to the thing, that is when I get engaged, really get that, I would not tell the whole world about it first I would actually mail some people because out of respect they should know it first. It can be someone that has liked me or liked my boyfriend, or people that should know it before the rest of you.
I mean if Michael and I break up I would want Michael to tell me when he has a new and not just show it to others before, and if he realise that he wants to get married to someone else and then get engaged I would appreciated that he tells me that in private than I hear it from someone else. So if me and Michael get engaged (well we will I know that, but not when really) I will tell like 4 people that before anyone else knows it, I am sorry but those four people deserves to know it before anyone else.
The thing is if you as a person can care about other people's feeling you have learn something really in this life. You can't just think about yourself always, than you are a very very selfish person, there is always someone in this world that has it worse than you. Trust me you aren't the person that has it worse, you have a head over your head, you have food, you have things, some people doesn't have that, and some are really ill. I know I am ill but I also know someone else has it worse than me.
If you forgive people when they have done to you they will learn that you have something nice in your soul. I do forgive many people the only thing I would be able to forgive is that someone cheats on me, because than that person would make me look like a fool. Honest the thing I really wan from people is honesty and if they don't give me that, then they aren't worth being in my life.
So if you have talked bad about me, I do forgive you. But if you have break my trust I can't forgive you as trust is everything I want in a relationship even if it is just friendship. Never lie to me, If I ask you something like, Have you ever talked trash about me, and what? and you have done it and say no. Honestly I know if you have done it if I ask you so don't say No, as then I would know you are just a lying person.
-Jo
Now to the thing, that is when I get engaged, really get that, I would not tell the whole world about it first I would actually mail some people because out of respect they should know it first. It can be someone that has liked me or liked my boyfriend, or people that should know it before the rest of you.
I mean if Michael and I break up I would want Michael to tell me when he has a new and not just show it to others before, and if he realise that he wants to get married to someone else and then get engaged I would appreciated that he tells me that in private than I hear it from someone else. So if me and Michael get engaged (well we will I know that, but not when really) I will tell like 4 people that before anyone else knows it, I am sorry but those four people deserves to know it before anyone else.
The thing is if you as a person can care about other people's feeling you have learn something really in this life. You can't just think about yourself always, than you are a very very selfish person, there is always someone in this world that has it worse than you. Trust me you aren't the person that has it worse, you have a head over your head, you have food, you have things, some people doesn't have that, and some are really ill. I know I am ill but I also know someone else has it worse than me.
If you forgive people when they have done to you they will learn that you have something nice in your soul. I do forgive many people the only thing I would be able to forgive is that someone cheats on me, because than that person would make me look like a fool. Honest the thing I really wan from people is honesty and if they don't give me that, then they aren't worth being in my life.
So if you have talked bad about me, I do forgive you. But if you have break my trust I can't forgive you as trust is everything I want in a relationship even if it is just friendship. Never lie to me, If I ask you something like, Have you ever talked trash about me, and what? and you have done it and say no. Honestly I know if you have done it if I ask you so don't say No, as then I would know you are just a lying person.
-Jo
Wednesday, 19 October 2011
Fashion
Okay people I know this is a hard thing to do but this shows that we all have different views on fashion that is why I have chosen to take this picture above, This shoes is from a designer named Christian Dior, and honest even if I like the shoes I would probably never ever buy them as they are to expensive.
Well when you talk about Fashion you always have to remember that there are a certain fashion designers that are huge as Chanel, Dior, Louis Vuitton, Fillipa K etc and all that cost is that there is designers that do the things.
I mean I can all tell you what I want in a fashion thing or recommend nice things, as I will do now..
Gucci dress
Alexander McQueen
Chanel bag
And the black one by Diane Von Frusten
I mean of course this would be an really expensive outfit but it would look great on you :D
So fashion is not just about the brand it is about the things you match together :D
Where I get my inspiration
People always ask me where I do get my inspiration to write on my
blog but honestly I really don't know where I get it. When I write
I seem just go to another place where I can hide, and be myself
no matter what, I know thee will be no one to judge me when I write it.
Just when they read the post but why would they want to read what I
have to say because I don't have so many good things to say really. Just
Common sense.
Jealousy is something everyone has been through, not you maybe but
maybe your boyfriend/grilfriend has been jealous or a friend. I
am not a jealous person there for I would never tell my friends, my loved
one to not be friend with anyone, because it it's their choice.
If you start to tell anyone that they can't be friend with someone than
according to me, you are the dickhead, because deep down you should
always follow your heart, and your own thoughts. If you want someone
in your life no one can tell you not to have that person in your life,
except that one person that might not want you in their life.
The thing is when you tell another persont that they can't be friends
with someone, please I beg you to think twice why do you not want that person
to be in that persons life? If you answer is because I don't like her/him than
you are really the person that are wrong, because you don't like a person doesn't
mean that the other person is bad, or anything, and why would your friend or
partner be wrong if they want to be friend with that person, for me you are
just a jealous person that try to own someone else, and that persons feelings.
That is not okay according to me.
The other thing I have been talking about is Cheating, why do people cheat?`
They say that boys cheats lots, well that most boys cheats, but that is wrong too.
As girls cheat as much, they don't tell people they are in a relationship. I have
a friend that even takes of her engagement ring because she wants to get a boy or
something like that. But honest do they think about anyone else than themself?
No they don't think about the other persont that they will hurt, I know that they
say that what you don't know about you don't have anything bad about. But they
should remember that the truth comes out later or sooner, I mean do they have as
much sex as before as they get it somewhere else from? They might say no to their
own partner and that person gets that feeling that they have done something wrong.
But you shall always remember that it's you that has done wrong, you have been
sleeping with someone else, shared your most intimate moments with someone else, that
isn't your love, that person you claim to love more than anything. You are the person
That makes me sick on the inside. I would never cheat I rather break up and tell the other
person that we are over, than to hurt him more than anything. You don't really
just think that the other person will smile when he/she finds out that you have
cheated on them. Honest they will lose hope for love and when you stop believing
in love you have lost the hope of the most beautiful thing in this world.
Most people think about themself that is true, as a humans are selfish deep down, but
we all can change that, if we slowly start to think about others. Other people
have it worse than what we have it, It depends where you live, and who you are.
Are you a strong person you would survive where ever you live in this world. But there
are somethings you really need where ever you live and that is clean water, and food.
Than you should have a roof over your head and you do survive.
I have been talking about love, alot about it, you have different loves, but deep down
love is somehting we should learn what it is about. It is not that you tell a person
I love you so much, even if you do. You have to show that person that you love him/her, with
actions, you can't just think that they will understand that you love them when you just say
it. I don't know why people think I am an ispiration to you, because for me it is easy
to just say that what I am thinking, because in the end the honesty leads you, and makes
you loved by others, If you always tell the truth you get the truth from others.
That is why I don't like liars, you can talk bad about me, but why do you want to talk bad
about me, I am a normal girl that has been through lots, and honest do you want me to talk
bad about you? I mean you get what you deserves in the end. If you are nice to people and
forgiving you will get that from other people.
I know you all wonder where I get things, and mostly I get it from the bible, and to read
about old wise people, I do read lots of things, and it makes me think in other ways.
the bible you don't have to follow it from A to B but you can read how you shall treat other
people other human being. The old filosofers like Platon, Aristotles, Sokrates, Freud, Wilde
etc had other views of the world and you should build your own view over the world.
I think the less things you own, the less money you have, the more happy you are, as you
really appreciated what you have in the first place.
Sometimes I might have something wise to say, but most of the times I speak from common sense
-Jo
blog but honestly I really don't know where I get it. When I write
I seem just go to another place where I can hide, and be myself
no matter what, I know thee will be no one to judge me when I write it.
Just when they read the post but why would they want to read what I
have to say because I don't have so many good things to say really. Just
Common sense.
Jealousy is something everyone has been through, not you maybe but
maybe your boyfriend/grilfriend has been jealous or a friend. I
am not a jealous person there for I would never tell my friends, my loved
one to not be friend with anyone, because it it's their choice.
If you start to tell anyone that they can't be friend with someone than
according to me, you are the dickhead, because deep down you should
always follow your heart, and your own thoughts. If you want someone
in your life no one can tell you not to have that person in your life,
except that one person that might not want you in their life.
The thing is when you tell another persont that they can't be friends
with someone, please I beg you to think twice why do you not want that person
to be in that persons life? If you answer is because I don't like her/him than
you are really the person that are wrong, because you don't like a person doesn't
mean that the other person is bad, or anything, and why would your friend or
partner be wrong if they want to be friend with that person, for me you are
just a jealous person that try to own someone else, and that persons feelings.
That is not okay according to me.
The other thing I have been talking about is Cheating, why do people cheat?`
They say that boys cheats lots, well that most boys cheats, but that is wrong too.
As girls cheat as much, they don't tell people they are in a relationship. I have
a friend that even takes of her engagement ring because she wants to get a boy or
something like that. But honest do they think about anyone else than themself?
No they don't think about the other persont that they will hurt, I know that they
say that what you don't know about you don't have anything bad about. But they
should remember that the truth comes out later or sooner, I mean do they have as
much sex as before as they get it somewhere else from? They might say no to their
own partner and that person gets that feeling that they have done something wrong.
But you shall always remember that it's you that has done wrong, you have been
sleeping with someone else, shared your most intimate moments with someone else, that
isn't your love, that person you claim to love more than anything. You are the person
That makes me sick on the inside. I would never cheat I rather break up and tell the other
person that we are over, than to hurt him more than anything. You don't really
just think that the other person will smile when he/she finds out that you have
cheated on them. Honest they will lose hope for love and when you stop believing
in love you have lost the hope of the most beautiful thing in this world.
Most people think about themself that is true, as a humans are selfish deep down, but
we all can change that, if we slowly start to think about others. Other people
have it worse than what we have it, It depends where you live, and who you are.
Are you a strong person you would survive where ever you live in this world. But there
are somethings you really need where ever you live and that is clean water, and food.
Than you should have a roof over your head and you do survive.
I have been talking about love, alot about it, you have different loves, but deep down
love is somehting we should learn what it is about. It is not that you tell a person
I love you so much, even if you do. You have to show that person that you love him/her, with
actions, you can't just think that they will understand that you love them when you just say
it. I don't know why people think I am an ispiration to you, because for me it is easy
to just say that what I am thinking, because in the end the honesty leads you, and makes
you loved by others, If you always tell the truth you get the truth from others.
That is why I don't like liars, you can talk bad about me, but why do you want to talk bad
about me, I am a normal girl that has been through lots, and honest do you want me to talk
bad about you? I mean you get what you deserves in the end. If you are nice to people and
forgiving you will get that from other people.
I know you all wonder where I get things, and mostly I get it from the bible, and to read
about old wise people, I do read lots of things, and it makes me think in other ways.
the bible you don't have to follow it from A to B but you can read how you shall treat other
people other human being. The old filosofers like Platon, Aristotles, Sokrates, Freud, Wilde
etc had other views of the world and you should build your own view over the world.
I think the less things you own, the less money you have, the more happy you are, as you
really appreciated what you have in the first place.
Sometimes I might have something wise to say, but most of the times I speak from common sense
-Jo
Sometimes I amaze myself when I think about my life, there haven't been so much luck at all, in friends, in life general, I started this blog to make someone listen to me, I can't believe that so many do read it honest I have over 300 people every month and because I write so badly randomly about anything.
The thing is that this blog has helped me more than anyone realise when everyone is thinking that I am the cold bitch most people that has read my blog realise that I am a pretty normal girl with normal feelings. The thing is that I never really show how much I get hurt, I have been taught in a young age not to show when you get hurt because people say something to you.
I have been called lots in my short but long life whore, slut, bitch, bimbo, idiot, way more. People has hit me, things like that. The thing is that I have tried to take my life once I wasn't that old either I was 11 years old, I am really happy that one parent found me and saved my life, I really wouldn't have been here if he wasn't walking his dog.
I have had eating disorder as people said I was fat when I wasn't I wasn't that strong when I was younger, now I am stronger way stronger that I think. I have always had really bad luck but than I have some glad moments, that actually made me think about other things than the bulling I had have in my life.
I was good in swimming, won lots of medals, I was good in running, helped me not being beaten up so much. I was strong always stood up for others that got bullied and got myself in the trouble. Beat up three boys when they bullied one of my friends.
I have always had a good relationship with my parents, and somehow I have found the best person in this world, and he loves me as much as I love him, so I think all that bad things that has happen to me, has formed me to who I am today.
I am not scared anymore of anything, not even for my operation I will have to do, in my heart, as I will have someone to hold my hand, when I am scared I know everyone else is as scared that I will die when I am as I am today. I can't really be scared because than it would be bad.
Some people always tell me who nice and sweet I am as a person, I can never see anything bad in anyone, even if people have treated me bad, and I mean really bad I can see the good side. You can always get my forgiveness as I see good thing in people. Even if they have hard time to see the good things about them I can see them.
You should always be nice and polite to people, and don't talk bad about anyone it always lead to mean things in the end.
All I am going to say really is that Life is always worth living no matter what bad you have in it it can only get better
-Jo
The thing is that this blog has helped me more than anyone realise when everyone is thinking that I am the cold bitch most people that has read my blog realise that I am a pretty normal girl with normal feelings. The thing is that I never really show how much I get hurt, I have been taught in a young age not to show when you get hurt because people say something to you.
I have been called lots in my short but long life whore, slut, bitch, bimbo, idiot, way more. People has hit me, things like that. The thing is that I have tried to take my life once I wasn't that old either I was 11 years old, I am really happy that one parent found me and saved my life, I really wouldn't have been here if he wasn't walking his dog.
I have had eating disorder as people said I was fat when I wasn't I wasn't that strong when I was younger, now I am stronger way stronger that I think. I have always had really bad luck but than I have some glad moments, that actually made me think about other things than the bulling I had have in my life.
I was good in swimming, won lots of medals, I was good in running, helped me not being beaten up so much. I was strong always stood up for others that got bullied and got myself in the trouble. Beat up three boys when they bullied one of my friends.
I have always had a good relationship with my parents, and somehow I have found the best person in this world, and he loves me as much as I love him, so I think all that bad things that has happen to me, has formed me to who I am today.
I am not scared anymore of anything, not even for my operation I will have to do, in my heart, as I will have someone to hold my hand, when I am scared I know everyone else is as scared that I will die when I am as I am today. I can't really be scared because than it would be bad.
Some people always tell me who nice and sweet I am as a person, I can never see anything bad in anyone, even if people have treated me bad, and I mean really bad I can see the good side. You can always get my forgiveness as I see good thing in people. Even if they have hard time to see the good things about them I can see them.
You should always be nice and polite to people, and don't talk bad about anyone it always lead to mean things in the end.
All I am going to say really is that Life is always worth living no matter what bad you have in it it can only get better
-Jo
Tuesday, 18 October 2011
Dilemma's
Today I am going to talk about unhappy love and what some friends might want you to do. But you can't as it is to hard to deal with, as you can be friends with both but the other one don't see that you have to be loyal to both of them and that is hard.
Lets say that you are friend with two people one girl and one boy where the one person likes the other I will choose the girl now, that she is in love with the boy and I will even name the boy and the girl just because it gets easier, this is not a true story but more of a dilemma and what you can do and things like that
Boy will be named Nick
Girl will be named Nikita
Nikita is really in love with Nick, would have been easy if Nick Liked Nikita too more than a friend but that is not happening here, we need him to be in love with someone else for the fun so he is in love with some other girl that is called Angelica. Anyway Nick one day asks you as you are friend with him to met that Angelica that he is dating, and you know that Nikita will get angry and feel betrayed of you if you meet her, so what would you do?
I would not tell Nikita that I am going to meet that new girl Angelica, just because I feel I have to be supported to my friend Nick, and that girl he likes, and If nikita do get angry because I met his girlfriend/date she isn't a real friend. She would actually let me met her without telling me not to met her. I know that I should support Nikita. But what happens if I say no to Nick, I might lose him as a mate.
Nikita wants you to help her break up Nick with the new girl Angelica, How wold you handle that?
I think the best thing is to tell Nikita to get over Nick as he is in love with the other girl, and I know that nikita will not listen to me, but in the end she will see that I want her best and that she should forget someone that is not loving you in the same way. Nikita can say what she wants, but in the end she has to forget Nick as he don't love her.
What if Nick and Nikita starts to fight?
This is the worst part in the end, as you can't stand in anyone's side here, you have to stay out from the fight, and let them fight. Nick will probably tell Nikita that he and her will never happen, and all that Nikita wants is Nick to love her, but you can't change a thing there as it is feelings.
Now to the worst dilemma of all Nick Likes you, and Nikita loves him.
This is the worst possible thing that can happen, all you really can do here, is to tell Nick that you and him will not happen as Nikita likes him and you respect Nikita as a person, and if he really likes you he would not date you when he knows Nikita loving him.
Because deep down a person knows if someone likes you more than a friend you always make something to tell that you love that person, I mean you always want to talk to him/her, the thing is that the person that gets the Nikita, will probably avoid her, because girls get pretty much annoying when they fall in love, and are unhappy in love.
-Jo
Lets say that you are friend with two people one girl and one boy where the one person likes the other I will choose the girl now, that she is in love with the boy and I will even name the boy and the girl just because it gets easier, this is not a true story but more of a dilemma and what you can do and things like that
Boy will be named Nick
Girl will be named Nikita
Nikita is really in love with Nick, would have been easy if Nick Liked Nikita too more than a friend but that is not happening here, we need him to be in love with someone else for the fun so he is in love with some other girl that is called Angelica. Anyway Nick one day asks you as you are friend with him to met that Angelica that he is dating, and you know that Nikita will get angry and feel betrayed of you if you meet her, so what would you do?
I would not tell Nikita that I am going to meet that new girl Angelica, just because I feel I have to be supported to my friend Nick, and that girl he likes, and If nikita do get angry because I met his girlfriend/date she isn't a real friend. She would actually let me met her without telling me not to met her. I know that I should support Nikita. But what happens if I say no to Nick, I might lose him as a mate.
Nikita wants you to help her break up Nick with the new girl Angelica, How wold you handle that?
I think the best thing is to tell Nikita to get over Nick as he is in love with the other girl, and I know that nikita will not listen to me, but in the end she will see that I want her best and that she should forget someone that is not loving you in the same way. Nikita can say what she wants, but in the end she has to forget Nick as he don't love her.
What if Nick and Nikita starts to fight?
This is the worst part in the end, as you can't stand in anyone's side here, you have to stay out from the fight, and let them fight. Nick will probably tell Nikita that he and her will never happen, and all that Nikita wants is Nick to love her, but you can't change a thing there as it is feelings.
Now to the worst dilemma of all Nick Likes you, and Nikita loves him.
This is the worst possible thing that can happen, all you really can do here, is to tell Nick that you and him will not happen as Nikita likes him and you respect Nikita as a person, and if he really likes you he would not date you when he knows Nikita loving him.
Because deep down a person knows if someone likes you more than a friend you always make something to tell that you love that person, I mean you always want to talk to him/her, the thing is that the person that gets the Nikita, will probably avoid her, because girls get pretty much annoying when they fall in love, and are unhappy in love.
-Jo
Friends and Enemies
You all have friends, you all have enemies.
The different thing about friends and enemies is that the other one can be hurting you way more than the other. I mean If I had a friend that becomes my enemy that person knows to much about me and then they hurt me in a different way than the regular enemy you have.
If your enemies are there to hurt you because you accidentally start to like a person that they like, you look at them in the wrong way, because you don't have a swedish last name etc they can not hurt you as much as a close friend or a ex friend can. Because they really don't know you and that makes them just morons that are mostly unhappy themselves.
But when your friend start to hurt you it actually doesn't make any sense. It can be so little that start that spiral, when you like the same guy, you are better than your friend in something, they hurt you in a meaner way. like saying, you are ugly, and stupid, loud and clear so everyone can hear it. They make fun with you because they want to look better themselves.
What I mean is that if you like the same person they can make you look like an totally idiot to that person, by talking things they make up, tell the worst parts of you, and everything else.
So who is easiest to forgive? The friend or the enemy? I think the enemy is the easiest to forgive as your friend was someone you trust but broke the trust. The same is with love if he breaks the trust you had in him, it is hard to rebuild.
The different thing about friends and enemies is that the other one can be hurting you way more than the other. I mean If I had a friend that becomes my enemy that person knows to much about me and then they hurt me in a different way than the regular enemy you have.
If your enemies are there to hurt you because you accidentally start to like a person that they like, you look at them in the wrong way, because you don't have a swedish last name etc they can not hurt you as much as a close friend or a ex friend can. Because they really don't know you and that makes them just morons that are mostly unhappy themselves.
But when your friend start to hurt you it actually doesn't make any sense. It can be so little that start that spiral, when you like the same guy, you are better than your friend in something, they hurt you in a meaner way. like saying, you are ugly, and stupid, loud and clear so everyone can hear it. They make fun with you because they want to look better themselves.
What I mean is that if you like the same person they can make you look like an totally idiot to that person, by talking things they make up, tell the worst parts of you, and everything else.
So who is easiest to forgive? The friend or the enemy? I think the enemy is the easiest to forgive as your friend was someone you trust but broke the trust. The same is with love if he breaks the trust you had in him, it is hard to rebuild.
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